How to attract Girls

If you’ve ever struggled with women and relationships, this special report is going to really open your eyes. My name is Joseph Matthews, and I used to be a COMPLETE loser with women.
To give you an idea of what I look like, I’m overweight, bald, and generally have the appearance of Tony Soprano’s lovechild. Because of this, I was always massively insecure around women. I’d had my heart broken on more than one occasion, and at times felt like I’d never be happy.
Then, something happened to me that was so traumatic, I made a conscious decision to make meeting, dating, & seducing women my ultimate goal in life. After all, everyone deserves to be happy, and to me, finding the right girl meant happiness.
Over the years, I must have gone out thousands of times, dating literally HUNDREDS of women. Not all were beauty queens, that’s for sure, but 99% of them were amazing girls.
Even though my looks didn’t change much, my success with women did. I learned how to improve my confidence, build attraction, and become a skilled lover. The things I learned have allowed me to be with women most men only dream of, including:
• Strippers
• Porn Stars
• Models
• Actresses
• Successful Businesswomen
• College Co-Eds
Just to name a few. It has been an incredible adventure for me, and the success I’ve achieved with the ladies has been beyond my wildest dreams.
In 2004, I even wrote a book teaching guys what it is I do that makes me so successful. It’s called The Art Of Approaching, and it contains everything any man needs to know to get the woman he desires.
(Hey, if a fat, bald, ugly guy like me can do it, ANYONE can!)
Since I released my book, I have literally helped THOUSANDS of men meet the right woman for them. Some have referred to me as a "real life Hitch," but I’m just some dude who figured a few things out. Nothing more.


How To Meet Women
Knowing how to meet women is probably the single most important skill any man looking to improve his love life could acquire.
Why?
Because it is the single, most IMPORTANT step in the dating process. If you can’t meet a girl, you can’t date her, sleep with her, or get into a relationship with her! It all starts with your ability to successfully meet the woman you desire without getting rejected.
Success with women is a numbers game. The more women you meet, the greater the odds of you finding one that will be right for you! So if you can’t meet girls, everything else will be all the more difficult.
Frankly, meeting women was probably the biggest hurdle I had to overcome before I was able to become really successful with my love life. That’s the reason I made The Art Of Approaching in the first place, to teach guys how to make the hardest part in the process simple!
Once I conquered the ability to meet any woman I wanted, I was able to have some incredible success. And everything else that comes after the initial meet became much, much easier indeed.
They key to meeting women without rejection comes down to two things…
1. Knowing what girls are open to being approached.
2. Saying the right thing when you do approach them.
Here’s some simple tricks to help you do both…
First, perform the Eye Contact Test. This is a simple technique I teach in my course to help find girls who are open to meeting you. A big mistake lots of guys make is they’ll try to meet women who aren’t interested in meeting them. This leads to rejection and hurt feelings.
Instead, when you see a girl you like, lock your eyes on her face, and wait for her to make eye contact with you. When she does, smile at her. If she smiles back, guess what? She’s open to meeting you!
I go into why this works in much more detail in my course, but let’s just say that when you do this, you’ve already begun talking to her "non verbally." So when you do start talking, it becomes a much easier task!

Try this technique next time you’re out and you see a woman you like.
Second, when you DO start talking to her, have a really good Opener.
An Opener is my fancy word for a pick-up line that really works. See, pick up lines have a bad rap! Many people think they’re stupid, cheesy jokes. But the best pick up lines are actually ones that get the girl talking to you! And chances are, they won’t even notice it’s a pick up line, either.
(All the best pick up lines, in my opinion, are "invisible.")
I always have a favorite opener of mine memorized and ready to go. Its best to have one that fits every situation you’re in, just in case your mind goes blank and you can’t think of anything situational.
I give away over 40 of my best Openers in my course. These are all lines I’ve tested to ensure that they will not only get a good response from the girl, but lead into an interesting conversation, that you can then transition into asking for her number, or even a date!
Check out my website for more details. Or you can also check out my friend Lance Mason’s excellent site Fearless First Impressions.
Lance and I have had marathon phone calls talking about our different techniques for meeting smoking hot women, and I can honestly say that next to me, his stuff is some of the best out there!
So if you’re really looking to easily meet hot girls anywhere you find yourself, check out my stuff or Lance’s. You can’t go wrong.


How To Meet Women On The Internet
One of my favorite past times is meeting women on the internet. It’s quick, its easy, and its gosh-darn effective!
One of the great benefits of meeting women online is that you can actually go to websites where women are basically raising their hand and saying "Hey! I’m single and looking for a man!"
You can’t beat that! And the sheer numbers of women you’re able to date from the internet is ridiculous. After one session of mailing profiles, I can easily get 20 dates lined up. Easily.
(And I’m not exactly looking like Brad Pitt, either!)
Now, a lot of guys actually have a hard time using the internet to find good women. Most of the time, this is what happens with internet dating…
• The women never look like their pictures
• The truly hot girls never write back
• Your profile never gets any hits
• You can’t get the girl to meet you in person
And that’s just a handful of obstacles you face when online dating. But luckily, I know how to get around these obstacles, mostly because of my friends Dave Miz and John Alanis.
These two guys are EXPERTS at meeting hot girls on the internet.
Dave is a guy who comes out of a website design background. When he was designing websites, he learned how to test the sites he was creating to make sure his websites actually performed the task they were designed to do.
So Dave went ahead an applied this type of testing to his online dating endeavors. And you know what? He creates KILLER online profiles that get literally HUNDREDS of responses from hot girls, and he doesn’t have to do a single thing! They contact HIM.
Dave’s profile creating secrets are really simple, but ingeniously devious. It all comes down to:


Choosing a great headline
• Choosing the right picture
• Writing great profiles that make him irresistible
• Knowing the tricks so that he shows up for as many searches as possible
Dave was able to date close to 400 women in 4 years thanks to his methods! That’s a hundred women a year he gets to hook up with. Check out his site Insider Internet Dating for more information.
And where Dave leaves off, my other friend John Alanis picks up! John likes to boast that he’s the "King of letting them come to you!" John jokes that he never approaches women, women approach him, because of his online techniques.
Just so you know, John is a short, balding, older man with a thick Texas drawl. But this guy gets more women than he knows what to do with!
See, John has a background in marketing, and he knows how to write emails to send to women online that get an insane 90% response rate!
That means that 90% of the women he emails check out his profile and get back to him. In fact, I use some of his "pre-written" material myself, and enjoy tons of emails back from the women I send it to.
Sending emails to women on online dating sites is a real art form, because any woman worth emailing is probably getting emails from literally HUNDREDS of guys, and 99% of them are lame.
If you know how to make yourself stand out, chances are you’ll get a butt-load of responses. Check out John’s site Women Approach You to discover what he’s doing that works so damn well online.


How To Generate Attraction With Women
No matter what you look like, how tall you are, how old you are, or what your ethnicity is, or how much money you have in the bank – it is possible for you to GENERATE attraction with any woman you want.
You may not believe me, but it’s true.
Understand a key point – attraction is an emotion! And emotions are not logical. Sure, it stands to reason that the more physically attractive you are, the easier it is to get women attracted to you.
But you need to be aware of the differences in how men and women think, to really understand how attraction works.
Men are very logical creatures, and are hard-wired to respond to stimulus differently than women. We are the hunter-gatherers by nature. We respond to situations based on logic. If we see a beautiful girl, logically we want to have sex with her! It’s that simple.
The mistake comes in when men believe women see the world the same way they do. Women are designed differently. They are more emotional by nature. They have to be, in order to care for children! After all, babies can’t talk. They can only communicate through empathy. So women naturally have to be more attuned to their emotional state to provide for their offspring.
That’s not to say women can’t be logical. They can. But while men can control their emotions with logic, women are more susceptible to letting emotion win out over logic.
This is good news to any guy who doesn’t look like a male-model, because it means that as long as you can trigger the emotions of attraction in a woman, it doesn’t matter what you look like, you CAN get her attracted to you!
In my course Pure Personality, I cover all the different facets of generating attraction based on the following things:
1. Social Proof
2. Storytelling
3. Being Entertaining
You may not think these three things can actually get a girl attracted to you, but you’d be wrong. Speaking from experience, these three factors are KEY to getting any woman you desire incredibly attracted to you, no matter what you look like.

So how do you utilize these three factors? Let’s break it down:
Social Proof: Social proof is basically using what other people believe about you to prove that what they believe is true. For instance, you can say you have a million dollars, but no one will believe you. But if you have five people saying you have a million dollars, people will tend to think you really do have a million dollars.
That’s social proof. So if you have other people saying you’re an attractive man, other people are more inclined to believe it!
Sounds stupid, I know, but trust me – it works!
The problem is a lot of guys don’t know how to get the social proof they need to prove they are attractive. But luckily, social proof can be created! It all comes down to knowing how to introduce yourself to lots of people and use those introductions to leverage public option.
(This is a very involved process, which I can’t get into in this short report. If you want to learn more about creating social proof, you really need to check out Pure Personality for yourself. I go into great detail about how to do it there.)
Storytelling: Telling stories is another key factor in generating attraction, because proper storytelling generates intense emotional connections and emotions. Think about it – every time you watch a movie or TV show, or read a book, you are being told a story. How many times have you felt excited, sad, happy, or amazed when being told a story?
Stories influence emotions, and when you know how to tell great stories, about yourself, you are able to influence how other people feel about you!
All the best "natural" seducers I’ve ever met are also the best storytellers. They’ll tell you stories about their life that completely capture your imagination, and make you like them. That’s why they’re so good with the ladies!
So learn how to use storytelling to influence what other people think and feel about you, and you’ll be well on your way to creating attraction with any woman.
Being Entertaining: Finally, you gotta be a guy people love to be around! This isn’t just about being a "dancing monkey" for people’s amusement. This is about making sure the people around you are having FUN.
Understand – if you can have fun with a woman, you can sleep with her! Fun is the key aspect of attraction, because when a girl is having fun, she’s experiencing all sorts of incredible emotions, and she’s associating all those feelings to YOU.
So whenever she’s around you, guess what? She feels good!

And when that happens, the girl will actively seek to be around you so she can experience those good emotions as much as possible. This is where attraction comes into play.
Storytelling can help you be entertaining, but you have to remember that if you’re not having a good time, others won’t be either. Try and have fun yourself! Do the things you like to do, talk about the things you like to talk about, and allow your good emotions to energize those around you.
Be the life of the party. It’s easier than you think.
Again, if you really want to learn how to attract women, then my Pure Personality course is definitely worth checking out. My good buddy Carlos Xuma also has his own spin on how to create attraction with his website Secrets Of The Alpha Man.
Carlos is truly an amazing teacher (I know I’ve learned a lot from him!), and his tactics really work. I strongly suggest you check him out when you get a chance.