Thursday, October 15, 2009

How To Be Funny And Interesting Around Women

When I was first starting my journey to becoming good with women, I came across a book which taught me one of the most valuable skills I’d ever learned when it came to dating.
The book was called Double Your Dating, written by David DeAngelo. And it was the first book I’d ever read which really taught a simple method of being funny and interesting around women.
David called this technique "Cocky & Funny." It was a way of acting around a girl which not only made you funny and interesting, it was also extremely effective at creating attraction.
The concept is simple – tease the girl you are with the same way you would your bratty little sister.
In this sense, you’re treating the girl you’re with the exact opposite way most guys who are looking to hook up with her would. Instead of telling her how beautiful she is, you talk about how she needs to stop lusting after you. Instead of talking about the reasons why she should fall in love with you, you talk about how you plan on marrying her and then taking all her money.
In short, you’re basically making fun of her in a good natured way, every chance you get.
And girls REALLY respond well to this type of thing, because you aren’t treating them like a "special princess," you’re treating them like real people – something most guys don’t think to do.
The only problem with this system is that too many guys do it WRONG. They actually end up insulting the girl, or making her mad, because they don’t know how to tease properly.
Here are a few simple guidelines to follow when teasing a woman:
• Never tease her about her physical appearance. It’s okay to tease about her fashion choices, hairstyle, etc., but that’s all stuff she has control over and can change. Teasing her about something she can’t change, like her nose, face, weight, etc. is a bad idea!
• Never tease her about her religious beliefs. Any belief she feels passionate about, you should never make fun of, because then you’d be attacking the core of who she is.

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• Point out the things she does that are stupid or foolish. Things like saying something dumb, or being clumsy, etc.
• Play against her expectations. Make it so that you come off as NOT trying to impress her or be romantic.
• Roll with the punches. If she teases back, show you can take it, and give her props for holding her own.
• Always make her the sexual predator. Misinterpret everything she does as a way of seducing you, and let her know it won’t work.
• Don’t always give a direct answer. Make her work for what she wants a little. If she asks what you do for a living, tell her she gets three guesses. Don’t just come out and say what you do.
Doing all this will not only make you stand out from all the other guys in her life, it’ll also be a LOT of fun.
Should you ever cross a line and take the teasing too far, don’t be afraid to apologize and let her know you didn’t mean to be rude, and ask what you can do to make it up to her. But don’t let a mess up stop you from teasing! Women LOVE to be teased, and it’s a great way to create sexual tension.
If you want to learn more about how to tease girls the right way, you definitely need to check out Double Your Dating if you haven’t already. It’s a great course, and definitely got me started on the right path.

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